The path you both choose on your partnership journey does work out, so there is only allowing for the vibration of what you want individually to end up serving both of you in your love for one another.
“It seems like you really want different things, or are even choosing different paths. But when you both tend to your Emotional Journey, the Universe will cleverly give you both exactly what you want… When you tend to the Emotional Journey, this Universe has the resources and the cleverness to orchestrate for each of you what you exactly want even when you think they are opposites one from another. It’s great fun to watch.”
Abraham-Hicks
Clairvoyant Medium Reiki Energy Healing 